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Letter · Co-AwakenSecure Attachment as a Way of LifeWhy we pause our business meetings so two grown adults can push and pull on each other.Aug 2026Letter · Co-AwakenLife Partnership PotluckTwenty friends, an altar, and a shared prayer for calling in devoted partnership.Jul 2026Letter · Co-AwakenThe Practice that Taught Me to Trust LifeA dyad practice for secure attachment — not just with each other, but with life itself.Jul 2026The Living EdgeThe Sacred EdgeWhat happened when I broke an agreement with my wife — and we both stayed.Apr 2026The Living EdgeThe First RungMy daughter just gave me an imprint that’s changing everything about how I relate to fear.Mar 2026The Living EdgeThree Lessons in HumilityA diaper change, a dying dream, and a cup of spilled tea.Mar 2026The Living EdgeThe Radius of CoherenceHow far can your truth travel before it stops being true?Feb 2026The Living EdgeThe Engineer ReturnsOn code, desire, and the contraction that runs through both.Jan 2026The Living EdgeSpiritual TechnologyOn reclaiming a word, healing a split, and bringing a school into form.Jan 2026The Living Edge2025 in Review: The Year Trust Became GroundA journey into a new relationship with reality.Dec 2025The Living EdgeThe School That Runs Through My BloodWhat my grandfather dreamed, my father built, and I will bring to life.Dec 2025The Living EdgeThe IntersectionBuilding Co·Awaken at the crossroads of spirituality, business, and engineering.Dec 2025The Living EdgeA Seed, A Transmission, A BeginningIntroducing Co·Awaken and the deeper truth of going for life before I feel ready.Dec 2025The Living EdgeThe ReachFor my daughter Ember, on your first birthday.Oct 2025The Living EdgeWhat an Epic Adventure This IsOn fatherhood, presence, and the gift of meeting every moment fully.Aug 2025The Living EdgeThis Is the Fairy Tale I Believe InLove that deepens through dragons, devotion, and a nine-month-old baby.Aug 2025The Living EdgeThe Greatest Gift of FatherhoodWhen resistance dies, presence is born.Jul 2025The Living EdgeWhen Sex Isn’t About SexHow projections onto sex and partnership keep us chasing—and what happens when we see through them. (Sex, Systems, and Sacred Union: Part 4)Jun 2025The Living EdgeThe Sex ContainerWhat our sacred intimacy practice taught me about collapse, connection, and being loved by the Divine. (Sex, Systems, and Sacred Union: Part 3)May 2025The Living EdgeSex: The Most Potent System for Transformation I KnowThe four properties that make sex a powerful engine for personal transformation. (Sex, Systems, and Sacred Union: Part 2)May 2025The Living EdgeA Virgin, AgainFrom silent shame to sacred sex—and the life I never thought I could have. (Sex, Systems, and Sacred Union: Part 1)Apr 2025The Living EdgeThe Kingdom Within: Initiations from Six Months of FatherhoodHow my daughter transformed my relationship to masculinity, beauty, and purpose.Apr 2025The Living EdgeRight on TimeUncovering the sacred beauty of my orgasm beneath my sexual shameMar 2025The Living EdgeThe Art of Being Held: My First 100 Days of FatherhoodMy daughter’s teaching me to trust life’s unfolding through tears, truth, love, rupture, and creative renaissance.Jan 2025The Living EdgeThe New Parent Story I Wasn’t ToldHow my first month as a father is shattering convention and revealing magic.Nov 2024The Living EdgeCrossing the Threshold: A Journey to Embracing FatherhoodNavigating trust, trauma, and transformation in becoming a fatherOct 2024The Living EdgeThe Bufo Miracle: Dissolving Generations of AnxietyHow my encounter with the psychoactive toad healed generations of trauma and became my closest direct experience of a real-life miracle.Sep 2024The Living EdgeTogether Yet Apart: Navigating Love and Loss After a MiscarriageReflections on the complexity of grief and the lessons I learned in honoring the loss of our first child.Jan 2024

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